The topics of the two posts am about to write today have been playing on my mind for the last two days. I just kept it bottled up, perhaps to open up about it in therapy, until … until late last night I happened to talk to two different people…

Every time I watch something on YouTube, I’m confronted with some advertisement that is urging me to be a better version of myself. Be it the innocent Grammarly, nudging me to write better (since obviously I don’t write good enough myself), or the more pronounced “Be a public speaker” ones…

… how trauma is passed on as bullying, and why it is important to speak up against it. [Disclaimer: this piece has been written keeping in mind male ‘bosses’ or managers; or men in general; because let’s be honest, if a woman dared do such things as bullying, on a…

PAC Man ❌ … PAC Model ✅ Recently I wrote an article ‘Everything is Scripted’ , looking at how our brain follows certain scripts, all our lives, especially in times of urgency. That was a from a neuro-psychological perspective. …

i.e., ‘learning’ is both beneficial and harmful to us. By the time you’re my age, or if you already are, you’ll probably understand what I am about to write now. ‘Learning’ is a process by which we perceive a stimulus, record it in our memory, and do some analysing on…

here’s a rant … I tried structuring it, but it ended up just like the topic it is about — random, haphazard, free-flowing, out of control. I mean, isn’t it; isn’t ‘Love’ stupid? It makes you so happy one moment; another, it makes you so sad and messed up. …

Last night I was chatting with a friend when the clock struck 12 and the day changed. Like a true patriot, and a funny person, she broke our conversation and wished me a Happy Independence Day using a WhatsApp sticker. 😁 That got me wondering, what does the Independence Day…

A lot of things are not explained to us, mostly because people who make us learn, themselves are not equipped to offer an explanation; their job is to teach, not to educate. In such a scenario, a lot of things are taught to us through ‘rote’ (ratte-maarna); and you guessed…

I’ve had friends who have been extremely ‘right’ bent, as they say. Lefts and Rights are perhaps western terms that I don’t fully understand so won’t build on that, but all of us know to an extent what I’m talking about. Closer home, it can be seen as Bhakts vs…